It’s easy to lose yourself in a world that constantly tells you who to be. From a young age, we’re told what to wear, how to act, what paths to take, etc. Somewhere along the way, the lines between who we are and who we think we should be begin to fade away.
I remember when I was that well-rounded, people-pleasing, butt-kissing teenager. At first, I convinced myself that blending in was easier than standing out. But the more I tried, the more I lost sight of the things that made me me.
The Weight of Expectations
Society often pushes the idea that we must fit into certain boxes to be accepted. If you’re too quiet, speak up. If you’re outspoken, tone it down. If you’re thick, lose weight. If you’re different, blend in.
But trying to be someone you’re not is exhausting.
Think about it—how much time do we spend adjusting ourselves to fit a version of us that isn’t even real? How often do we hold back? Are we afraid of judgment?
Embracing Your Uniqueness
It took me a while to figure this out, but once I started being myself, I felt lighter as the stress fell off my shoulders.
Being yourself doesn’t mean you’ll always be understood. Not everyone will get you and that’s okay. The right people—the ones meant to walk alongside you—will appreciate the real you.
The world doesn’t need another copy. The world needs you.
When you choose to be yourself, you give others the inspiration to do the same.
At the end of the day, you’re the only one who has to live with yourself. Wouldn’t you rather live as the real you instead of a watered-down version of someone else?
If you want a reminder, listen to “Scars to Your Beautiful” by Alessia Cara. It’s a powerful anthem that reminds us that we’re not broken. We are enough just as we are.
You are His masterpiece!
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